Some do, but many don't — particularly couples who already live together. Alternatives include honeymoon funds, experience funds, charity donations, or asking guests to contribute to something specific rather than buying objects.

The best gifts feel personal and considered. Think about what the couple actually loves — their hobbies, interests, or home aesthetic. Experiences, bespoke items, and contributions toward something meaningful all make memorable gifts.

There's no fixed rule. A general guide is between £50 and £150 per couple, but this varies depending on your relationship to the couple and your own budget. Never feel pressured to spend beyond your means.

Ideally before the wedding day. If you miss the wedding, it's still appropriate to send a gift afterwards — within a few weeks is ideal, though late gifts are always appreciated.

Champagne or wine, a personalised keepsake, a voucher for an experience, or a contribution to their wedding fund are all popular choices. Keep it celebratory rather than practical and make it feel personal to the couple.